It is said “communication is the hardest thing in the world.” Isn’t that the truth! Lack thereof causes chaos in an organization, misunderstandings between friends, broken hearts between lovers, and bloody wars amongst countries. Why is it so hard to communicate with our fellow humans? Is it the fear of being ridiculed? Judged? Looked down upon? Rejected? Pride? Whatever the reason, lack of communication is the root cause of all sorts of relationship issues not only in the workplace but in our personal lives as well. It’s not always easy to express our feelings and thoughts, especially in a corporate environment where politics rule. We have to be mindful of what we say and to whom we embrace in our circle of trust. However, shutting down is not smart either.
We need to express our thoughts and share any ideas we may have relating to any projects or issues with a positive attitude. Our ideas may not always be accepted, but at least we will feel good about having shared our thoughts. This is where we park our egos at the door and move on. Silence may be golden in some cases, but being able to communicate is the key to any successful and happy relationship.
A few kind words from a friend or a colleague, a caring gesture from a boss, a heartfelt “thank you” note or a warm hug can make a huge difference in the world.